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Compassion: When Your Table is Too Big
When we say that school administrators, lead pastors, or management seem to have forgotten what it was like to be ‘the little guy,’ we are r

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Nov 4, 20174 min read


Thankfulness and Sensory Processing
As I began to heal, I saw the world around me for what I felt like was the first time. I was like a small child discovering the world. There

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Nov 1, 20174 min read


Leaving Tomorrow in the Future
Instead of fearing tomorrow, delight in today. It has been a long road to accomplishing this because I trained myself to be prepared for any

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Oct 29, 20174 min read


The Day Everything Changed
The day I walked into therapy, I got on a train to a new destination. Scott saw me departing and jumped on board. We have traveled over moun

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Oct 24, 20174 min read


Monkey Bars or Swings: Choice vs. Obedience
I was like a small timid child who was terrified to step out on the playground. I needed God to direct me to the monkey bars or the swing. M

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Oct 22, 20175 min read


Flying Earrings: The Lesson
When my earrings fell out and bounced across the floor, I was suddenly about six years old in an adult presenter’s body. I could do nothing

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Oct 17, 20175 min read


When the Canary Stops Singing
I was the child who stopped singing. One Sunday morning when I was about eight, I refused to sing the song, Jesus Loves Me.
“Why aren’t you

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Oct 15, 20175 min read


The Story My Body Told
The second realization had to do with manicures. I knew, without understanding the language being spoken, that no one wanted to give me a ma

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Oct 10, 20175 min read


The Search for Normal
This is the human search for normal. Then one day, someone does the unthinkable and we say, “He seemed like a normal guy.” Yes, he did becau

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Oct 5, 20174 min read


The Children are Watching
All the while, the children were watching. They still had the capacity to develop two eyes, but they needed to understand what it would feel

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Sep 27, 20174 min read


Hiding in the Garden
The tragedy of the human condition is not in eating the apple, but in the distortion of natural guilt. Our greatest loss is when we no longe

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Sep 24, 20175 min read


Please Look at Me!
“Please, just keep looking at me and I will be OK.”
I was speaking to another woman who also got pulled over ‘for further inspection’ at a

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Sep 21, 20174 min read


What God Does (and Doesn't Do)
This blog is for everyone who ever had something bad happen. That would be all of us. What if we believe that the God, who can do anything a

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Sep 17, 20175 min read


Anxiety: Stay in the Intersection!
Then, one day, I was driving across town and fighting the ever-present anxiety, when I suddenly I realized that my mind was in the middle of

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Sep 5, 20174 min read


When God is Not in Control
Outside of an understanding of an uncontrolling God there is no potential for truly transcending the human experience of trauma, living life

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Aug 27, 20177 min read


Our Tenacious Inner Child
Jeannie was and is tenacious, but I don’t think there is really anything inside me that is not available to every human being. We are born t

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Aug 24, 20176 min read


Therapy: Do I Hear Crickets?
When I include the word therapy in my blog titles, I hear crickets. Maybe I should just randomly include ‘God’ in the titles. Maybe that wou

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Aug 22, 20176 min read


Jesus Said to Love YourSELF
As much as we want to deny that an inner child still lives inside of us and is the core of who we are, it is the absolute truth. When I snea

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Aug 20, 20175 min read


The Church: Is it Safe?
My story of trauma is not unique. Statistically one in four (or five) have experienced some type of sexual abuse—mostly as children. If you

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Aug 13, 20176 min read


Generational Patterns and the Ice Cream Truck
My daughter and I were sitting beside the pool playing a card game. My granddaughter was swimming with a newfound friend about her age. Off

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Aug 10, 20175 min read
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