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Mental Health: The Not-So-Golden Silence
I saw her stand up to give her testimony. Everything in me was screaming. "No! Don't do it!" But she did. In exquisite detail

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Jun 19, 20178 min read
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Jeannie Learns to be Brave
From somewhere deep inside of me, I can still feel myself gather up strength in order to be brave for my father. We never talked about that

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Jun 14, 20173 min read
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Courage Profiles: We Went to Therapy
(Courageous like a Lion! I am meeting many who have courageously gone to therapy and are now sharing their stories to help others. I will...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Jun 6, 20174 min read
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Trauma and PTSD: My Story of Hope
It was natural to think of PTSD being a primarily military problem—until I met my own trauma and PTSD symptoms face to face.

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Jun 2, 20175 min read
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Forgiving Can't Heal You
Some define forgiving as a choice. They say, “Choose to forgive and eventually you will feel it.” I say, you haven’t forgiven until you feel

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
May 30, 20175 min read
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Rock-a-Bye Baby: What God Wants for Every Child
When I was a little girl, I had a book with Nursery Rhymes. I still have it. I kept it through all my moves. The picture I attached to this

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
May 26, 20175 min read
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Messy Closets & Going on a Bear Hunt
We had been sitting and talking for some time—a long time. It was like we should have been friends always, but since we hadn’t been we...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
May 19, 20174 min read
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Did I Damage You?
To have our children point out our inadequacies and accept it with grace is probably the hardest, bravest, and most helpful thing we could e

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
May 18, 20173 min read
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When Dads are Mothers
This is my day before Mother’s Day epiphany: My dad was my mother. I blogged earlier about the difficulty of buying cards on Mother’s...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
May 13, 20173 min read
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Because a Teacher Cared
The following excerpt from my first book, BRAVE: A Personal Story of Healing Childhood Trauma, explains the reason I spent my life...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
May 10, 20172 min read
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Therapy: Just Like Falling in the Giraffe House
With the words to a song about climbing out of the rubble drifting through my head, I entered the giraffe house at our local zoo. It had...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
May 10, 20172 min read
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The Ladybug Takes Flight
Two years ago, I marched in my graduation regalia and knew it would be my last time to sit with the faculty at Convocation. The sun was...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
May 7, 20175 min read
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Picking Roses and Cards
When I was a little girl, every Mother’s Day, my mother would go outside and pick a rose for each of us. She would choose red for me and...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
May 3, 20175 min read
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When the Altar is Not Enough
I can remember going to down to the altar since I was eight.Year after year, I heard the evangelists and preachers say, “Come lay your...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Apr 30, 20173 min read
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I Went to Therapy
Staring at the large white Victorian house in front of me, the safety and comfort of my car seemed to wrap around my terrified body and...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Apr 28, 20175 min read
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Dance With Me!*
I always believed I had no rhythm. It wasn’t true, but I believed it. Once, when speaking, I said rhythm had been bred out of me as a...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Apr 25, 20174 min read
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Writing My Own Ending to My Story
Last week I had the opportunity to sit with a new group of potential friends and tell my story. That was a frightening thing to do...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Apr 23, 20174 min read
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An Easter Perspective: Guilt, Shame, and Forgiveness
Why did Jesus die? Well, first of all he died because religious types hated him for speaking truth that upset their carefully constructed...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Apr 16, 20175 min read
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Why April Licked Her Baby
While watching April, the giraffe, give birth this morning, I thought it was a perfect illustration of new birth and bonding. It was a...

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Apr 15, 20172 min read
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A Culture of Shame
While bracing myself for the lurch of the tram at Denver airport, I watched as a young family with a stroller and screaming toddler tried to

Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Apr 10, 20174 min read
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